Patterns of Relational Harm (abuse) affect  adults and children.

It is not always as obvious as bruises and broken bones.

Here you will find some educational materials to help you recognize and understand the types of domestic violence and how best to take care of yourself if you are being harmed.

If you are unsure about whether you are being healthy in a relationship or if you are in a relationship with someone who is not being healthy with you, take a look at the wheels below and see if/what might sound familiar (from DAIP).


This informative handbook was developed by King County for victims/survivors of patterned harm/abuse.